of course I don’t know you but I will say it sounds like you are a lesbian from this ask! if you are only attracted to and want to pursue relationships with women, then you’re a lesbian - even if in the past you’ve been with men. compulsory heterosexuality is the idea that heterosexuality is forced upon lesbians by our patriarchal culture. what is comphet comphet is short for compulsory heterosexuality. this carrd was last updated on october 10th, 2023. ![]() Trust yourself - you are the only person who knows your experience and the only one who can define your identity. this carrd is a bite-sized and up-to-date version of the ‘am i a lesbian’ masterdoc. retrospectively, I can understand these as various forms of comp het and confusing platonic feelings for attraction, but it doesn’t have a bearing on my current identity. ![]() many lesbians I know have dated or hooked up with men in some capacity before realizing they were gay! my girlfriend dated lots of men before she came out & while I never dated men, I had crushes on boys when I was younger. that is really shitty & that anon doesn’t know you at all or anything about your sexuality. Hey anon, I’m so sorry that happened to you.
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